It behooves me
to explain the title of this post.
Encouraged emboldened by my recent foray into a far more panoramic world than I’m generally used to, I thought why not kickstart the lunar new year by grabbing the colour bull by its horns, yes? Sidenote: this post was originally slated to run yesterday, the 8th, but as fate would have it, my scheduling went somewhat awry and consequently, it makes its appearance today instead.
Back to dabbling in colour.
It really feels odd that it’s taken me so long to become comfortable with wearing bright colours. I might have mentioned this before but prior to the last 10, 12 months, my palette was comprised of black, black and, oh, black. It’s been that way since I was 13. Grey was as rainbow technicolour as I got.
Look at me now.
Even my hair is saying it loud and proud. I think it might very well rival my dress in terms of vivacity and hue, wouldn’t you say?
That’s always been me, though, as in when I’ve made up my mind to do something, I go all out. No half-hearted attempts. Just full throttle. It’s the very same mantra I’ve applied throughout my entire life, I suspect.
I’ve been told I’m an extremist.
And yes, I confess, moderation is a concept relatively foreign to me. I’ll be the first to come right out and admit that I simply don’t know how to operate in moderation. I attack everything with gusto, with my entire spirit, with every ounce of passion in my 5ft tall body.
As it is with everything else, there’s good and bad in that sort of mentality.
Are you like me? Do you tend to go off on the deep end and be an extremist too? Or are you of the enviable sort, wonderfully adept at pacing yourself and smoothly keeping things balanced? If you’re of the latter category, you really ought to consider bottling it up, filing for a patent and then make oodles selling it to extremists of the world #me
Love, Sheela
p/s photos by Eve
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I’m loving the coral dress on you, and your shoes are amazing!
Rachael
http://www.threadsforthomasblog.com
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Want to know a secret, Rachael? I love the cut of this shapeless dress so much that I bought it in several colours. Black, Teal and, of course, Coral 🙂 xo
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I do love to throw myself into (and out of) things as well, but on the surface I am a serene moderate. this coral dress is gorgeous for you, as are all those pretty rings. You just keep doing you, Sheela, you’re a star. xo
-Patti
http://notdeadyetstyle.com
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Hahahaha I love how you phrased that, Patti, on the surface I am a serene moderate. You certainly give of an exceedingly zen vibe. Ever calm and composed 🙂 you’re such a star to me too, incredibly poised and confident always xoxo
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The red lip with the coral dress are gorgeous!
I do have a tendency to go full throttle and then drop things. It’s not good. It’s like I keep throwing pasta at the wall hoping something will stick.
bisous
Suzanne
http://www.suzannecarillo.com
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Ahhhh my man would say that’s such a waste of good pasta GRIN but I get your analogy, Suzanne, and I understand. I shoot arrows into the dark and hope something will hit bullseye but truly, I need to incorporate balance into my life. I think things will get accomplished better that way and certainly efficacy levels would rise so there you have it. Far easier said than done, eh? xoxo
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That’s so funny what you say about moderation. Sometimes we just really like to express ourselves and want to put it all out there. I think you look fantastic with those shoes and I’m glad you chose a colourful dress to wear for the new year. It surely suits and love how you styled it. Would love if you can link up to http://the-wardrobe-stylist.com/2016/02/06/valentines-day-outfit/
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We do, we do, we do!! I can’t help myself. I know now what holding back means. And I’m certainly no disciple to the principle of less is more xoxo
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Sheela, I have three main loves here.
First.
Your shoes!!! I am loving their super-fierceness. They look like they could attack at any moment!
Second.
Your colour palette. Coral, nude and gold are GORGEOUS on you.
Blinged up to the max, dripping in gold, like a modern-day Cleopatra.
Third.
Your skin! It is beautiful, not a line, not a wrinkle.
I am not at all envious…nope, not a bit! :oP
XXX
Samantha
http://www.fakefabulous.com
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Have you seen the video in which I shared the secret to my absence of fine lines and crow’s feet, Samantha? http://bit.ly/1muzRZf
XOXO
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So pretty in coral and what fun gold accents!!
Amy Ann
Straight A Style
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Hey Amy, thank you so much 🙂 this is a typical lazy day outfit for me. Nothing to iron. Everything’s in “just pull over the head and ready to go” mode xo
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Sheela, your jewellery ROCKS, absolutely amazing ❤ 🙂
Edita
http://www.pret-a-reporter.co.uk/
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Thanks so much, Edita, I have a thing for statement jewellery and, clearly, shoes 🙂 xoxo
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Oh wow – THOSE SHOES!! How utterly fantastic & fun! You always have the most unique pieces..
Shauna
http://www.lipglossandlace.net
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That is so cool coming from you, Shauna. I’m a huge fan of your style, you always look ever so pulled together all the time xo
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Sheela, you look beautiful in Coral and those boots…wow what a statement piece! Please feel free to stop by my new weekly Weekend Wear Friday linkup and share your style.
xo Sheree
http://poshclassymom.com
IG: @poshclassymom
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I absolutely will, Sheree, and thank you so much for coming by. I know you have many blogs to visit and read and post comments, and it means a lot.
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Hunnnaaaaayy!!
Yessssss! This outfit is everythingggg!
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Thank you, baby girl xoxo
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YOUR SHOES!!! Obsessed!
xx, Elise
http://www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com
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Thank you so much, Elise 🙂 I love them too!!!
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woah, that dress is great on you but can we talk about your statement boots? omg, I love love love!!! Looking amazing!
-Lily from With Love Lily Rose
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LOL we most definitely can 🙂 and should. I adore them!!! xoxo
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I’m definitely an extremist too. Such is life. I could benefit from some more pacing.
Your shoes are killer and the photography in this is excellent! Great work!
Nina
aworldofdresses.com
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I could do with some coaching in pacing myself too, Nina. But then again, I wonder how much of my personality would change as a result, and if I would like those changes at all. I’ve gotten so used to being this way 🙂
Thank you so much!! I love my shoes, clearly 🙂 and credit must go to my 16 year old, Eve, who takes almost all of my photos. She’s amazing.
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I love the look. Coral is such a flattering color. Thank you for sharing at #thursdayfavoritethings. Pinned and tweeted!
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Thank you so very much, Marilyn, Happy Friday!!
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Lookin GORGEOUS in coral, Sheela!
Thanks so much for sharing with Fun Fashion Friday & happy Valentine’s Day!
OXOX
Dawn Lucy
http://fashionshouldbefun.blogspot.com
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Thanks, babe 🙂 xoxo oh and a very belated Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!!
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Thanks for linking up to Top of the World Style. It is your style and it looks great on your. Don’t even think about moderation. It is not you
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Thank you, Nicole, yes, you’re right. Moderation is so not my middle name xoxo
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Love the coat. We are on the same page with our faux fur this week
http://michellespaige.com
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Yes, we are, Michelle!! So cool 🙂 xoxo
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Coral is one of my favorite color. It smells of spring always
I love your style and your blog.
Visit mine if you want
many kisses
http://www.welovefur.com
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I think this post explains exactly why we have become such good friends: we are both full gusto all the way!
I’m glad you’re in to color now Babe. It looks amazing on you!!
Big hug! Annie from Kremb de la Kremb
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