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Me, Myself & I | Sheela Writes

Me, Myself & I

Why so secretive? Why all that hush hush?   How is it we talk about our deepest emotions?  The state of our relationships?  Share our innermost desires and thoughts and fears, and yet hardly anyone talks about sex?  Or, for that matter, masturbation?  I know, I know, did that come across a little too forcefully? LET’S START WITH THE OBVIOUS, SHALL WE? First, the grass is green, the sky is blue, and people masturbate.  Gleefully and often.  But, for some unfathomable reason, men more so than women.  Could it be that many of us are still thinking, “Someday, my prince will come, and so will I.”  Emmmm.  Question mark.  It doesn’t help that the topic of self-love is still brought up in hushed tones, especially amongst women (shaking my head).  It’s seemingly impossible to engage in a candid discussion about, ahem, flickin’ the bean, even from girlfriends who are quick to talk about explicit escapades. This is due partly to the reality that no one wants to talk about vaginas.  According to socially constructed conceptions …